It’s painful to discover not everyone sees our good intent when we bravely put our Wayward-ness forward. To a person needing a sandwich, though, a flower can seem insulting. We can’t know what every single person needs, and we couldn’t provide it if we did.
Should we stop offering flowers?
No, but we should stop being attached to reactions. We aren’t being Wayward for a reaction, anyway. We are Wayward for ourselves. If someone needs what we’re offering, they will find us at the right time.